Monday, February 28, 2011

Logan & Taylor are 19 months

Logan and Taylor are approching the 2-year-old mark at an incredible speed, and it shows through their learning and activity level.

This month, Logan's vocabulary has increased a lot! He expresses himself and understand so much better than he did just last month. He points to things that he wants, he signs for "more" and says "more", and he follows simple directions. He also says "peaz"(please) to get things from me. This month, he also started waving, finally, by moving his hand up and down. He can point to various body parts and name them, including belly button, nose, mouth, eyes, toes, and tongue. His favorite word has been "no", although he also likes to say "Taydo" (Taylor). He likes to run around the couch and chase others or be chased. He likes to put adult shoes on and attempts to put his own on, too. He lets me know when he wants to go outside by grabbing his shoes, coat, or waiting by the door. He is very mechanical and loves to try to figure out how things work. The other day, he grabbed a toothbrush, sat underneath his highchair, and messed with the screws using his toothbrush. He knows how to start/stop the dishwasher and push the handicap button to get the doors to open up at the store. He loves to hear me sing and sings along. At bedtime, he actually gets us started on singing. He occasionally fake-cries to get something that he wants or to get Taylor in trouble. He turns the faucet off when we wash his hands after meals. He figured out how to open drawers and take everything out. And although he still likes to steal whatever Taylor plays with, he is also really good at sharing and brings Taylor's cup over to him whenever he has a drink. And he knows which cup is whose. He sometimes also feeds Taylor or brings toys to him. And finally, he likes to rub lotion in, himself, Taylor, or me. The first time Billy saw Logan rubbing lotion on my legs, he said, "Is that what you're teaching our kids? To pamper you?" He's a sweet boy!


This month, Taylor's vocabulary has also increased a lot, although it shows more in his understanding than expression. He points to things that he wants, he signs more "more", and he follows simple directions. This month, he also started waving, finally, by opening and closing his hand. He can point to various body parts when asked, including belly button, nose, mouth, and tongue. He likes to run around the couch and chase others or be chased. He likes to put adult shoes on and attempts to put his own on, too. He lets me know when he wants to go outside by grabbing his shoes, coat, or waiting by the door. He is very mechanical and loves to try to figure out how things work. The other day, he grabbed a toothbrush, sat underneath his highchair, and messed with the screws using his toothbrush. He knows how to start/stop the dishwasher and push the handicap button to get the doors to open up at the store. He loves to share with Logan, anything, anytime, and anywhere. And he knows which stuff is whose. What he doesn't like, though, is when Logan takes things from him, so he bites him, and has to go to time-out for it. He figured out how to open drawers and take everything out. He is still trying to figure out how to open doors by messing with the doorknob (and has figured it out at his cousin's). He also figured out how to undress himself, top and bottom, and does it regularly. He loves to run around naked, that silly but fun boy! And finally, he likes to rub lotion in, but mostly on himself and me. He's a sweet boy!

Friday, February 25, 2011

Billy's birthday - no pictures

I gotta admit I feel like a pretty lame wife right now. Billy turned 30 yesterday (yes, the big 30), and I have NO pictures as a record of that special day. It's almost like it never happened, which in some way, I'd bet Billy wishes it didn't or wouldn't. So I'm gonna try to describe the day in such a way that my words become like pictures when you read them.
The day started out like any other - Billy woke up, the kids and I were still snoozing, and he went to work. Throughout the day, I sent him a few messages and pictures to remind him that he was in our thoughts. When he came home, we ran over to him and showered him with hugs and kisses - just like any other day. After he got comfortable, we gave him a few small presents and then, thanks to Paul and LeiLani's willingness to watch Logan and Taylor, Billy and I were able to go to a nice restaurant and enjoy each other's company. We went to Alba, a one of a kind fancy resturant in Des Moines East Village. Billy ordered Beef Carppicio and I ordered Witer Bruschetta for our appetizers. For the main course I ordered Chive Potato Gnocchi and Billy ordered Sweet Potato Gnocchi. As usual, Billy prefered what I ordered from what he ordered, so he ate his whole meal plus a third of mine... the usual. And for dessert, we shared a Chocolate Lava Cake with buttermilk ice cream, which the waiter was nice enough to put a candle on.
When we walked into Paul and LeiLani's appartment, Logan and Taylor barely noticed us. They were having so much fun with their cousin Kai that they probably wouldn't have cared if we had been gone a few more hours. I love having family around. And I love that Logan and Taylor have a cousin that is so close in age. We will sure miss them when we move in a few months.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Breaking the "Buddy" habit

Logan and Taylor have been recognizing their names since they were 10 months or something like that... or so we thought. Yesterday, Billy was trying to get their attention, so he called their names. Nothing. He tried again. Nothing. He did so probably 5 or 6 times. Nothing.

Billy: Honey, do you ever call them by something else than their names? Something French, maybe?
Me: No, not really. Well, I guess I do call them "Buddy" sometimes.
Billy: (Still trying to get the boys' attention) Buddy? (Logan and Taylor both lifting their heads up) Oh, dang it! They think their name is Buddy!

So today, I've made a special effort to break the Buddy habit, and call them by their names. It's been a lot harder than I thought. Within 2 hours, I caught myself calling them Buddy about 25 times. It's work in process...

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Valentine's Day

For Billy and I, this was our 6th Valentine's Day as a couple, our 5th as a married couple, and our 2nd as parents. So I wanted to make the day very special for all of us, but... silly me... I didn't take any pictures of our activities. I've got Google Image to thank for these reproductions of pictures.

One: I put some ink in the palm of Logan's hands, and then Taylor's hands, and we made this. Around the heart, I wrote a note from the boys. I felt like I was back in kindergarten. It was fun!

Two: Because our trip to Las Vegas turned out to cost more than we had anticipated, Billy and I agreed not to get each other anything this year. Instead, thanks for a wonderful friend - whose husband unfortunately had to work that night - Billy and I went out to dinner at La Mie. La Mie is this amazing French Bakery that usually doesn't usually serve dinner but does on Valentine's Day. They have a set menu that day that includes several courses.

You'd think I'd know French well enough to know everything that was on the menu, but you'd be wrong, because there were words on there I had never seen in my life. We started off with some clams that had bread crumbs on them. On the same plate we had one of those things that I didn't recognize, but it was basically beef. Then we had lamb chops, winter squash with gnocchi, and lemon cod. Then we had an orange salad. And we finished off with the best - a hazelnut and chocolate cake with meringue. It was so good I had to go online and look for the recipe.






Hazelnut chocolate cake with meringue
1 1/2 cup(s) hazelnuts, 7 ounces
6 large egg whites, at room temperature
pinch(s) of salt
1 1/2 cup(s) granulated sugar
2 teaspoon(s) pure vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon(s) pure almond extract
1 cup(s) mini chocolate chips, 6 ounces
6 ounce(s) bittersweet chocolate, melted and cooled
3 cup(s) heavy cream
1/4 cup(s) confectioners' sugar
Chocolate shavings, for garnish

Directions
1. Preheat the oven to 350° and line 2 large baking sheets with parchment paper. Draw two 8-inch rounds on one sheet of the parchment and one 8-inch round on the other.
2. Spread the hazelnuts on a third baking sheet and toast for 12 to 14 minutes, until browned. Let cool slightly, then transfer to a towel and rub to remove the skins. Chop the nuts. Lower the oven temperature to 225°.
3. In the bowl of a standing electric mixer fitted with the whisk, beat the egg whites with the salt at medium-high speed until soft peaks form. Gradually beat in the granulated sugar at high speed until stiff. Beat in the vanilla and almond extracts. Fold in the hazelnuts and chocolate chips. Pour the melted chocolate down the side of the bowl and gently fold until the meringue is lightly marbled.
4. Spread the meringue in the drawn circles and bake for 2 hours and 30 minutes, until crisp; rotate the pans halfway through baking. Turn off the oven, leave the door ajar and let the meringues cool completely.
5. In the bowl of the standing mixer, beat the cream with the confectioners' sugar until firm. Remove the meringues from the parchment paper. Spread the whipped cream on the layers and stack them. Refrigerate or freeze the cake overnight. Cut into wedges and serve at room temperature. Garnish with chocolate shavings before serving.

Three: We came home and I made Billy watch the Bachelor with me. He was such a good sport. He has actually gotten to know the girls on the show pretty well. I bet he could even name a few if you asked him.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

No planning for me...

It's true... I am one of those people... the ones who have lists and schedules for everything... the ones who feel like their day went well if, and only if, they accomplished something that day... the ones who see themselves as "organized" while others see them as having "OCD"...

So it's been driving me insane to not be able to plan the next few months of our lives. We simply don't have the answers to the questions that would allow us to plan. And we have a few major events coming our way- graduation, baby #3, and moving.
  • Where will we be moving to for residency?
  • Are we going to drive there? If we go to Kansas City, KS (3hrs), I think we can all handle the drive. Billy will drive the moving truck that will pull his car, and I will drive the minivan with the 3 kids. But if we go to Gainesville, FL (20 hrs), I don't think we can stop every couple of hours to feed baby girl and keep the boys happy for so many hours.
  • Are we going to fly out there? If Billy drive the moving truck pulling his car, we will need someone to drive the minivan, and I will need 2 adults to help me on the flight (since we'll have 3 kids under the age of 2). If he comes with me, we will still need another adult on the flight, and we'll have to have our things shipped out (which will be pricey).
  • Are we going to rent (which we probably would if we go to Florida) or buy (which we probably would if we go to Texas)? How and when are we going to fly out there to find a place to live?
  • When will baby girl come? Before, after, (or during) graduation?
  • Should we try to get help from family as soon as she is born, when we are ready to move, or when we have already moved?
  • If she comes before graduation, will we be able to attend the ceremony? And if she comes after, will our family miss the birth?
  • I know my parents, my brother and my sister-in-law want to help, but when would their help benefit us the most?

I have so many more questions in my mind that I can't even manage to write them all down. There's just a big mess in my brain right now, and I'm not even sure that we'll be able to figure it all out, even after we find out where we'll be going for residency. Even though some of these questions will be answered in just a month, we won't get answers to a lot of them until baby girl is born, whenever that will be. (sigh)

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Las Vegas

Last weekend, we went to Las Vegas for Billy's 30th birthday celebration. This was also an opportunity to take our first official family vacation.

Day 1

The view.

Our room.


Gambling away... Just kidding... We'd probably get in trouble for those pictures since no one 21 years and younger is even allowed near the machines.



UFC 126 - Billy got to see the fighters (and the announcer) up close and personal while I walked around the city with the boys.

Day 2

At the Mirage to watch the volcano show.

At Treasure Island to watch the dancers and singers.

Occasionally the stroller just wasn't doing the trick, so we let the boys stretch out their tiny legs. Taylor did a fantastic job holding my hand... Logan... not so much.

At Aria (where the Bachelor and the girls stayed while in Las Vegas in last week's episode).
The restaurant at Aria .

Riding the Gondola at the Venetian.

Family picture in front of the Mirage.

In front of the waterfall at the Mirage.

One of my favorite stores, H&M. You wouldn't even know I'm in the picture because the store is so big (and closed on that picture - the boys woke up at 5 that morning).

Checking out the pool area at Caesar's Palace.

Day 3


At the Bellagio fountain show.


Watching the Tournament of Kings (a fanstastic Vegas show), while eating some food with our fingers (the boys did great with that).




At the Mirage, where we were staying. We got to see the dolphins, lions, and tigers from really close up, which fascinated Logan and Taylor.
Opening doors became something the boys really looked forward to everytime they saw doors.
Naptime was... not very good. So we drove up and down the strip while the boys slept.

At the Mandalay Bay, where we ate a yummy lunch.

I also met my twin - kind of! We were in line, at the buffet restaurant, waiting to be seated, when I saw a girl who looked exactly like me. It was kind of spooky at first because I felt like I was looking at myself in the mirror. After we were seated, Billy was like, "Hey, did you see that girl who looked exactly like you?" I was like, "Oh my gosh, so it wasn't just me thinking that? You saw her, too? Yeah, it was scary how much she looked like me."
And, while we were waiting for our flight at airport, we all of sudden heard girls screaming for joy. I told Billy, "Hey, maybe someone won a bunch of money at the slots." Then we saw a bunch of girls following a guy, trying to take pictures of him and with him - It was Flavor Flav! And if you remember Halloween 2008, Billy dressed up as Flavor Flav. Yeah, it was pretty cool!


This was such a fun trip! I think we really needed some time to relax and enjoy being together. I wish we could have stayed longer, but it is nice to be back into our routine and schedule. Next time: Hawaii. Although I'd be happy going to St. Maarten, St. Thomas, St. Lucia, or Europe. Anywhere I can relax and soak up some sun sounds great.

Pregnancy Weeks 22-24

Week 22
How I'm feeling: I have backaches, I started snoring, my immune system is at its worse, I am getting nosebleeds, and I started wearing maternity pants (sexy!)

This is what I looked like when I was 22 weeks pregnant with Logan and Taylor. Huge difference, I think. Then again, I was having 2. And yes, I was graduating from college.

The baby is the size of a papaya. Baby is now able to hear outside noise from down in the womb. Studies show that baby finds gentle music and your own voice most soothing. Nipples are starting to sprout, and that little face is fully formed. And, baby's starting to settle into sleep cycles, snoozing about 12 to 14 hours a day.

Week 24
How I'm feeling: Very emotional! I cried for 45 min on the flight back from Las Vegas because Logan was freaking out and I couldn't calm him down.

All the hotels and casinos were decorated for the Chinese New Year, and it looks like this baby girl is going to be a Rabbit!