Monday, November 9, 2020

Bangkok

Day 1:

I didn't have any expectations for Bangkok. I just wanted to go with it and be pleasantly surprised. And I was. Bangkok is the capital of Thailand. It's a city. It has areas with lots of money (hotels, restaurants, etc.) and areas with very little money (building falling apart). It has a Chinatown, like any big city, and lots of shopping markets, partially inside and partially outside.
The hotel was Amazing! Right on the Chao Phraya River. We had a breakfast buffet there, which was as wonderful as the view.

Our tour guide Sam took us to the Grand Palace. The detail in each structure was breathtaking. All were very unique, too. The first of the three structures was Phra Sirafana Chedi, made entirely of gold mosaic. The second structure was Phra Mondop, and in my opinion, the most beautiful one. There were figures of demons and human faces guarding all four doors. The structure itself was made of many things, including gems, tiny little mirrors, and volcanic stone. The third structure was Phra Ubosoth, or the chapel of the Emerald Buddha. Pictures weren't allowed there, but thye dress up the little buddha differently for the winter, rain, and summer. Yep, all 3 seasons.




Wat Pho, The Reclining Buddha, is world-renown, and I could see why. The buddha was ginormous, and covered entirely in gold leaf.


Wat Arun is another well-renown structure. William and I were able to climb the steep stairs and walk up as far as we were allowed.



Sam then took us out to lunch. The food was heavenly, but the coconut-butterfly pea ice cream was the best. The communication was a little off on that, mostly because I thought I'd heard them say "butter-fly pea". Well, it turns out the butterfly pea is a purplish-blue flower. 


After a little afternoon break, we had dinner on the river with a view of the Wat Arun, which we had visited earlier that day. The food was great, but the view was the best, especially because we got to see the sun setting over the Wat Arun. It was beathtaking.



When in Bangkok... It was still early enough and since the market stays open late, we decided to do some shopping. We got some knock-off belts for the kids, a dress for me, and some cool lights. Everything was super cheap. And then William convinced me to try the durian. I'd never even heard of durian before, but I could smell it before we even got close. My verdict: it tasted as gross as it smelled. No wonder certain businesses don't allow the fruit in their premises. To get back to the hotel, we took an overpriced Tuk-tuk. It was fun, for the experience.



Things I learned:

- 95% of the population is Buddhist. The next largest religion is Muslim.

- People pray to Buddha, who was a living person, not a God or anything like that. They basically worship him.

- They believe in cremation and reincarnation. reincarnation is based upon how a person lived their life.

- There are 4 categories of people: good people who do good things, good people who do bad things, bad people who do good things, and bad people who do bad things.

- The weather in Thailand, and most specifically Bangkok is hot, hotter, and hottest.

- It doesn't rain often and the country is suffering from the lack of water. But it is very humid there, in fact I felt it as soon as I stepped off the plane.

- They drive on the left side of the road, something the English established.


Day 2:

Sam took us a little out of the city to a place called Ayutthaya. It took me a while to understand what Sam was saying because it sounded like he was saying UTI. We visited the Summer Palace there, which sits on 46 acres. It was beautiful with all its green grass, trees, flowers, and koi.





We then went to Wat Maha That, which are ancient ruins in Bang Pa-in. It was interesting to see all the Buddha heads that had been cut off. The other structures had also all been destroyed or were sinking into the ground.




We also saw this really big Buddha in the temple next to the ruins.


The market was just minutes away, so we walked over to check it out for a little while. Sam gave us a taste of Roti saimai, which I can only describe as a green sweet crepe filled with cotton candy. That's not really what it was, but it was soooo yummy. And very sweet.


We then took a cruise boat on the River of Kings. We had a lunch buffet on the boat. Everything was delicious, but the Pad Thai has always been one of my favorite Thai foods.


We had a food tour scheduled that evening, but we couldn't leave Bangkok without seeing a Muay Thai fight, so we got some last minute, FRONT ROW, tickets. Little did we know that the guys fighting would be BOYS. Some of these boys looked like they were barely 14. As the fights went on, the boys did seem to get older. But still, these boys put up a fight. And they kept a straight face through the stomach punches and leg kicks. I was impressed. They were so calm and collected the entire time. There were no knock-outs and no bloody faces, but these guys took some mean hits, especially knees to the abdomen and ribs. 

It was really neat to see the culture incorporated into the fights. Like all the fighters came in wearing a cape, flowers around their neck, and a headband-looking thing. Then they knelt to each corner of the stadium and did a little dance in the center.     

I also thought it was interesting that no one threw punches in the last 15 seconds of the fight. In the US that's wen they give it their all, their last shot, in order to say they fought until the very end. But in Thailand, they stop near the end, maybe out of respect for their opponent.



Some things I learned:

- The flag is red, white, and blue. Red represents nationality, white represents Buddha, and blue represents loyalty.

- The (pregnant) queen of King Rama IV died at 34, alongside her child, in a boating incident. My understanding was that her guards were unable to assist her because they couldn't physically touch a woman (even to save her).

- Ying and yang. There's a little bit of bad in good people and a little bit of good in bad people.

- In 2011, there was a flood caused by too much rain in Ayatthaya. People had to get around by boat.

- There are 16 steps, or levels, in heaven.

- The Lotus flower is used a lot in ceremonies and is considered to bring luck.

- We saw a lot of dogs walking around, without a leash or a person. I thought they were stray dogs, but Sam said they usually belong to people. These dogs just kind of walk around then come home for food, like cats do in America.

- The Thai have 5 rules to obey, including: don't kill, don't steal, and don't lie. The monks have 227 rules. That's a lot more!

 

OHIO Girls' trip

I have never had better friends than my friends from Ohio. They set the bar so high that I haven't been able to develop friendships quite like that out here. They were seriously THE best! So when Vanessa's husband offered to fly her out for a week, I knew we needed to get the whole gang back together. I was so grateful that everyone could make it, even if it was only for 2 days for most of the other girls.

Erin lives in Mesa, so this was easy for her, except that she needed to be home with her kids when her husband was working. Stephanie lives two hours away, so she brought her youngest with her while her husband stayed home with the other 4 kids. She ended up staying one night at the hotel with Rachelle, Maloree, Vanessa, and I. Rachelle and Maloree flew in from Texas and Idaho (respectively) and stayed 3 nights, if I remember well. And of course, Vanessa stayed with me, except for the one night we spent at the hotel.

Vanessa and I had a great time. Of course I still had to take the kids to school and other activities all week, but she was a good sport and came along at least half of the time. I didn't want to pressure her into following me along everywhere, after all, this was her vacation. We went out to eat a ton, watched The Bachelor, got massages, and got a pedicure, too. We had lunch with Erin twice that week. And we did a lot of talking. A lot. It was so fun to catch up with her. It was like the good old times. 

Maloree and Rachelle flew in later that week, on a Thursday night. We hung out at the house for a couple of hours I showed them around and Roxy was super spooked by Rachelle. It was hilarious.

The next day, we met mid-afternoon at the mall and did some shopping. Then Erin and Stephanie met us for lunch. I had to get the kids from school, so I headed home and the rest of the girls went back to the hotel. We met up again in Downtown Gilbert for dinner and dessert. I love the atmosphere downtown. It's so hip and lively. I spent the night at the hotel, sharing the bed with Maloree. Vanessa and Rachelle shared another bed. And Stephanie had her own bed, because she still fed her baby at night. He was actually so good tagging along with everything that we did. We stayed up way too late that night, but it was worth it because we laughed so hard!

Then on Saturday we went to the Farmer's Market and walked around Downtown Gilbert in the daytime. We also had brunch at Snooze, the most well-known breakfast restaurant in the area. It did not disappoint. We then decided to all get manicure/pedicures. Since Vanessa and I had already gotten pedicures, we got manicures. Everyone else got pedicures. That evening, we went back to the hotel, except for Erin, who had to go back to her kids. Stephanie also left kind of early because she still had a 2 hour drive home. The rest of us jumped into the hot tub, which was really hot, by the way.

I love my girls. We always have so much fun. I feel so blessed to have these special friendships in my life. I also love that we all text pretty much every day. We always know what's going on in each other's life. We have no secrets. In fact, I probably know a little too much about every single one of them. I wouldn't have it any other way.

BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!





















Ahhh, 2020 (January)

There is so much to say about the year 2020. I imagine future generations, with their jaws on the ground, upon learning that we lived through 2020. But let's back up a little and start at the beginning, because 2020 wasn't all bad.

Roxy.. Some days I loved having her. She was a companion, a friend. Other days I longed for the days I didn't have to think about blocking off certain areas in the house or rushing home so that she wouldn't be in her crate or in the backyard for too long. I used to get so angry, too, every time she had diarrhea in her crate. It stunk up te entire playroom. And it was a huge mess to clean. She also never learned to use the bathroom while we were on a walk, even though I know she could smell the other dogs' pee and poop. She would wait until we got home to ask to go outside in the backyard. Not ideal...! But she was so good with the kids, especially Alexis, who could be kind of rough with her sometimes.







Sometime in January, I picked up bahts from the bank, for our trip to Thailand. I was super excited. I had never been to Asia before.



Alexis loves playing with friends. Her best friends are Kira, whom she goes to church and school with, and Jane, whom she knows from church. She also likes Jones, whom she knows from church, too. Kira is actually a year and a half older that her. Jane is a year older. And Jones is a few months older.







Wednesday, January 1, 2020

Best of 2019

Best of 2019

* Beeston Family Reunion at Disneyland
* Kelly Clarkson concert with William
* St Patrick's Day in Chicago with the family
* Anniversary trip in Italy
* Kendall's baptism
* Family trip to New York City
* Hairson Family Reunion in Maryland
* Disneyland for Alexis' 3rd birthday
* Roxy (sometimes a high, sometimes a low)


New Year's Eve

The kids all really wanted to go ice skating again, so while William was at work doing anesthesia on a partner who had requested him, specifically, I took the kids to the ice skating rank. It was fun!
Then in the late afternoon, Paul and his family came to hang out at our place. They didn't stay until midnight because Paul had to work in the morning, and I honestly didn't think I'd even last until 10. But the kids played (and Paul) played with Roxy, then we had Kodo sushi for dinner. The kids also had a laser guns war. It was fun!
But by 9:30, just half an hour after they'd left, I was ready for bed. I'm sorry, kids, that I was such a party pooper, that we didn't get fireworks, and that we didn't go outside to see other people's fireworks. I was in bed and out by 10:30. But at least we had a fun evening with family. We just blew our horns at the Eastern time turn of the New Year. Here we go 2020.
My goals for this new year: 
* healthier eating
* more patience
* more affection
* more talks with the kids