Friday, December 28, 2012

Best of 2012

There is never a dull moment in the Beeston household, thanks to my 3 busy and active children. Here is what happened in 2012 (the big stuff):

January 2012:
Playing in the snow

February 2012:
Bonne-maman's visit (she was supposed to help us with potty training but all the kids got sick - still it was great to have her here to help us all feel better - and the boys learned to use to potty only a couple of months later anyway).

Billy's birthday

April 2012:
Easter

This picture

Kendall getting her ears pierced
May 2012:
My birthday +

Our family vacation to Disney World

Kendall's First Birthday
Our soccer team

Kendall's photo shoot (thanks, V)
June 2012:
Jenni's visit before her move to AZ
July 2012:
Our visit to Cinncinnati

4th of July with great friends

Logan and Taylor's 3rd birthday

Marine's visit

August 2012:
Potty training Logan and Taylor in 3 days! +

Kendall learning how to walk
 
September 2012:
Football season, dressed up for OSU and everything

Megan and Erin's visit

October 2012:
Halloween festivities and traditions

Grandpa and Grandma's visit

The coolest pumpkin patch, ever!

Dressing up for Halloween - 6 times!
November 2012:
Sheryl's visit

Kendall going to nursery

Celebrating Luc's First Birthday

Visiting Bon-Papa and Bonne-Maman in Maryland for Thanksgiving

December 2012:
Christmas festivities and traditions

 And some more:

Watching Kendall grow

Watching the boys play with each other
 
These looks and smiles

Girls' nights (love these girls!)

Our numerous trips to the splash pads
Our numerous trips to the metro parks in Columbus

Our numerous trips to the playground!
 
Our numerous trips to the zoo

Our numerous trips to COSI

Pool days


2-on-1 dates with these cute boys

Dates with this hot guy!
   
 I hope 2013 will be as much fun as 2012 was!!!

Kendall is 20 months

What happened to my little angel? This month, we've had to start putting Kendall in time-out, although right now it's basically just me sitting in the hallway with her on my lap for a minute. She's really sweet, but she definitely has some spice in her, too. I'm sure that'll be a great thing when she's a little older.
I like that she has a personality of her own. I like that she doesn't take crap from anyone. I like that she is a leader and not a follower. I like that she knows exactly what she wants and doesn't give up until she gets it. I see these things as qualities that will one day make a beautiful young woman with values and character.

This month, Kendall:
- started picking fights with her brothers
- hits whoever is responsible for her not getting what she wants
- pinches and scratches (mommy, especially)
- has had separation anxiety and screams bloody murder in nursery and at the gum day care

But Kendall also:
- gives her babies lots of hugs and kisses
- kisses Logan and Taylor every time we ask
- says No to giving kisses to mommy or daddy, then cracks up when we keep asking
- says a lot of single words
- says a lot of nonsense sentences
- says Amen at the end of each prayer
- loves to dance
- loves to read books
- loves to sing The Itsy Bitsy Spider (in her own way)
- enjoys watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
- tells us when she's all done eating but then stuffs her mouth with food when we pick her up from her chair
- is learning colors (although they're all blue right now)
- is learning to count to 3

Random Acts of Kindness

My goal this year was to do 25 random acts of kindness - one for each day in December until Christmas. Sadly, I didn't reach my goal, because we got stuck at home after our house got broken into. I tried to play catch-up, but then the kids got sick, so we were stuck at home again. I tried to take as many pictures as I could, and here they are.

1. We went to the store and left candy canes in random places.

2. We left a couple of dollars on some toys at the store.

3-4. We dropped off some treats at a few friends' homes. (We did this twice)

5. We donated a few bags of clothes.

6. We brought dinner over to someone who had just had a baby.

7.We fed a few meters downtown.

8. Each child donated 2 toys.

9. We left candy canes at gas stations around our neighborhood.

10. We left a gift to our waitress (a lotion and hand sanatizer).

11. The kids drew a picture and we mailed them to family members.

12. We left a dollar at a couple of vending machines.

13. We left 3 diapers and a bag of wipes at a changing table in Walmart.
14. Billy brought muffins to work.

15. We left muffins in our mailbox for a mail carrier.

16. We babysat for someone who needed help.

17. We donated money to every homeless person that we saw that day (3)

18. I signed up to help with everything I could at the ward Christmas Party.

19. I made special treats for the girls I visit teach.

20. We collected carts at the store.

21. We taped quarters to the shopping carts at Aldi.

It was a lot of fun, although it was sometimes a little awkward to do certain things without being seen. I hope to do this every year, and have the kids be involved more and more each year. I want them to know that Christmas is not about receiving but about giving. Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Christmas Day

Well,... I didn't take many pictures on Christmas Day. Not that it was a busy day; it was actually a very relaxing day. I took some pictures with my phone and sent them to Bon-Papa, Bonne-Maman, Tonton Fred, and Taty Marie, to thank them for the presents, but they all turned out pretty blurry :-S
The kids all slept in that day. It was a Christmas miracle. Kendall woke up at 8:30 AM and the boys woke up at 8:50 AM. They were super excited when they saw the presents underneath the Christmas tree. They opened up presents and played with them until lunch time. No breakfast for the kiddos (I had made muffins, but they were too busy to eat...)
Kendall's favorite toy was a baby doll. Logan's favorite toy was the remote control car. And Taylor's favorite toy was the extention train tracks with the Chuggington trains. Billy got a bunch of gift cards to buy clothes, and I got a few pairs of shoes, among other things.
For lunch, we had chicken salad croissants and a cheese platter. For dinner, we started off with tomatoes and mozzarella, then we had ham, a green bean casserole, mashed potatoes, stuffing, and rolls. And to finish off, we had cheesecake.
Although we missed our families, it was fun to stay home and play all day. Billy and I reallyenjoyed it, and I think the kids did, too.




Winter Bucket List

This was our Winter Bucket List:

Make an ornament: Nope
Make a handmade gift: Hmmm, no.
Ice skate: Oh, how I wish we had...
Read The Night Before Christmas: No

Drink hot chocolate: Delicious!
Volunteer together: Well, I did...
Take a drive, look at lights: The Wildlights at the Zoo were the best!
Play in the snow: We may not have had a White Christmas, but the next day we got a foot!
Decorate a gingerbread house: The boys LOVED it!
Bake cookies: Yes, and it got really messy :-S
Watch a Christmas movie: We watched at least 12!
Listen to holiday tunes: Yep, since the day after Thanksgiving.
Take a nature walk: Every Sunday.
Visit Santa: Logan and Taylor were in awe, Kendall freaked out!
Decorate the Christmas tree: 3 kids = Only the top half was decorated
Build a snowman: Our little snowman quickly got destroyed. No pictures to show.
Fill the stockings: Check
12 Days of Christmas: More like 20 days of Christmas!
Bake cookies for Santa: Yes, yummy! I mean, I'm sure Santa liked them...

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Fall Bucket List

I love Fall. I love the colors, I love the mild temperatures, I love the smells, and simply said, I love everything about it. It's by far my favorite season. There are so many great traditions that can be associated with it. I want my kids to always remember our family traditions. And hopefully these will carry on to their own families. This was our bucket list this Fall:

Bonfire With 'Smore: Oops
Apple Picking: I wish...
Bake a Pie: Does cake count?
Go on a Hay-ride: They didn't have them the day we went :-(
Make Leaf Art: Nope
Go on a Bike Ride: Stroller ride?

Take a Nature Walk: Yes, every Sunday!
Pumpkin Patch: Yep, with Grandpa and Grandma.
Make Fall Cookies: Heck yeah!
Caramel Apples: Yummy!
Carve a Pumpkin: The boys loved it!
Go to a Corn Maze: Yes, with Grandpa and Grandma.
Play in the Leaves: Of course, at Bon-Papa and Bonne-Maman's.
Trick-or-Treat: 3 times!

8 out of 14. We'll do better next year!

Columbus Metro Parks

The weather has been fantastic; Billy has been getting most Sundays off; and we've taken full advantage of it.
For the past few months, we've visited a different Columbus metro park every Sunday. Every park is unique in its own way. And while we've enjoyed walking around certain parks more than others, the best part has been spending family time together. (Although breathing in fresh air, admiring everything nature has to offer, and having deep conversations has also been great.)

Three Creeks Metro Park

Batelle Darby Metro Park

Blendon Woods Metro Park

Inniswood Metro Park

Prairie Oaks Metro Park
Pickerington Metro Park
Blacklick Woods Metro Park



Glacier Park

Scioto Audubon Metro Park

Monday, December 17, 2012

Tragic events

A lot of horrific events have occurred since I moved to the United States 12 years ago. The following events are the ones that have affected me the most. They are the ones that I will always remember, including where I was when I found out about them.
As the years go by, I am getting more and more nervous about raising my children in a world where innocent people (and children) are killed just because they were in the wrong place at the wrong time.
"I know the Lord loveth his children; nevertheless I do not know the meaning of all things." 1 Nephi 11:17. My heart aches for those who lost a child, a parent, a brother, a sister. But I refuse to live in a world of fear. It's important for me to remember that there is still good out there. And we have a choice to be the good we want to see around us.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/moments-that-restored-our-faith-in-humanity-this-y



Sandy Hook Elementary School Shooting (December 14, 2012)

On December 14, 2012, a gunman killed twenty children and six adult staff members at Sandy Hook Elementary School in the Sandy Hook village of Newtown, Connecticut. Identified by authorities as 20-year-old Adam Lanza, he killed his mother, Nancy Lanza, at their nearby Newtown home before driving to the school. After shooting the students and employees, he committed suicide.

The total death toll was 28, including the perpetrator. Two adults were treated for injuries.
Some time before 9:30 a.m. on December 14, 2012, Adam Peter Lanza is believed to have fatally shot his mother Nancy Lanza, aged 52, in the face and head at their Newtown home. Investigators later found her body in her bed, wearing pajamas, with four gunshots to her head. Lanza then drove his mother's black Honda Civic to the Sandy Hook Elementary School.

At about 9:35 a.m. Lanza shot his way in through a locked glass door at the front of the school. Principal Dawn Hochsprung and school psychologist Mary Sherlach were in a meeting with several other faculty members when they heard gunshots outside the room. Hochsprung and Sherlach immediately left the room and rushed to the source of the sounds to encounter Lanza, who shot both women dead as they confronted him. Diane Day, a school therapist who was at the faculty meeting as well, reported hearing screaming, followed by more gunshots. Natalie Hammond, vice principal and lead teacher in the meeting room, pressed her body against the door to keep it closed. Lanza shot Hammond through the door in the leg and arm, for which she was later treated at Danbury Hospital.
Teacher Victoria Soto attempted to hide several children in a closet and cupboards. As Lanza entered her classroom, Soto told him that the children were in the auditorium. Several of the children then came out of their hiding place and tried to run for safety and were shot dead. Soto put herself between the shooter and her students, and he fatally shot her. Six surviving children from Soto's class crawled out of the cupboards and fled the school, taking refuge at the nearby home of a retired psychologist. Lauren Rousseau, a substitute teacher since October, was shot in the face and killed. Teacher Anne Marie Murphy was found dead in her classroom, her body shielding her students.
Elsewhere in the building, a custodian ran through hallways, alerting classrooms. First grade teacher Kaitlyn Roig, age 29, hid 14 students in a bathroom and barricaded the door, telling them to be completely quiet to remain safe. Maryann Jacob, the library clerk for the school, first hid 18 children in a part of the library the school used for lockdown in practice drills, but on discovering that one of the doors would not lock, had the children crawl into a storage room as she barricaded the door with a filing cabinet. Laura Feinstein, a reading specialist at the school, gathered two students from outside her classroom and hid with them under desks after they heard gunshots. Feinstein made two calls, one to the school office and the other, unsuccessfully, to 9-1-1. After hiding with the children for approximately 40 minutes, law enforcement finally came to lead them out of the room.
The shooting stopped between 9:46 a.m. and 9:53 a.m., after approximately 50 to 100 rounds had been fired. Lanza shot all victims multiple times, and he shot at least one victim 11 times. Most of the shooting took place in two first-grade classrooms, with fourteen deaths in one room and six in the other. The student victims were eight boys and twelve girls between six and seven years of age, and the six adults were all women who worked at the school. Lanza shot himself in the head as first responders arrived. A 6-year-old girl was the sole survivor of her class of 15 first-graders. Her teacher was also killed. Her family pastor told media that the child survived the mass shooting by playing dead.

(All throughtout the day, I watched the CNN reporters get chocked up as they were telling the age of the innocent children who were killed. That night I watched the President of the United States make an annoucement that really touched me. For the first time since he became President, I saw him as a father, and I appreciate that. It breaks my heart that these innocent children were robbed of their future. I can't believe that someone would do such a horrible thing. I appreciate the courage that the teachers at the school demonstrated. There are good people in the world, and I am grateful for them.)


"The Dark Knight Rises" Premiere shooting (July 20, 2012)   On Friday, July 20, 2012, a mass shooting occurred inside of a Century Movie Theatre in Aurora, Colorado, during a midnight screeningof the film The Dark Knight Rises. A gunman, dressed in tactical clothing, set off tear gas grenades and shot into the audience with multiple firearms, killing 12 people and injuring 58 others. The sole suspect is James Eagan Holmes, who was arrested outside the cinema minutes later. Police said the shooter bought a ticket, entered the theater, and sat in the front row; about 20 minutes into the film, he left the building through an emergency exit door, which he propped open.
It is alleged that he then went to his car, which was parked near the exit door, changed into protective clothing, and retrieved his guns. About 30 minutes into the film, police say, around 12:38 a.m., he re-entered the theater through the exit door. He was dressed in black and wore a gas mask, a load-bearing vest, a ballistic helmet, bullet-resistant leggings, a throat protector, a groin protector and tactical gloves. Initially, few in the audience considered the masked figure a threat. He appeared to be wearing a costume, like other audience members who had dressed up for the screening. Some believed that the gunman was playing a prank, while others thought that he was part of a special effects installation set up for the film's premiere as a publicity stunt by the studio or theater management.
It is also alleged that the gunman threw a canister emitting a gas or smoke, partially obscuring the audience members' vision, making their throats and skin itch, and causing eye irritation. He shot first to the back of the room, and then toward people in the aisles. Some bullets passed through the wall and hit people in the adjacent theater 8, which was screening the same film. Witnesses said the multiplex's fire alarm system began sounding soon after the attack began and staff told people in theater 8 to evacuate.
The first phone calls to emergency services via 9-1-1 were made at 12:39 a.m. Police arrived within 90 seconds and found at least three .40-caliber magazines, a shotgun and a large drum magazine on the floor of the theater. Some people reported the shooting via tweets or text messaging rather than calling the police. Some of the first police on the scene decided not to wait for ambulances and took victims to hospitals in their squad cars.
About 12:45 a.m., police apprehended Holmes behind the cinema, next to his car, without resistance. The police interviewed more than 200 witnesses. Investigators say that the shooter acted alone and was not part of a larger group or terrorist organization.
Seventy one people were shot or otherwise wounded, reported by mainstream news as the most victims of any mass shooting in United States history. It is also the deadliest shooting in Colorado since the Columbine High School massacre on April 20, 1999. Ten people died at the scene and two died in local hospitals. The youngest shooting victim was three months old.


Virginia Tech Massacre (April 16, 2007)   The Virginia Tech massacre was a school shooting that took place on April 16, 2007, on the campus of Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University in Blacksburg, Virginia, United States. Seung-Hui Cho shot and killed 32 people and wounded 17 others in two separate attacks, approximately two hours apart, before committing suicide (another 6 people were injured escaping from classroom windows). The massacre is the deadliest shooting incident by a single gunman in U.S. history.
Cho, a senior English major at Virginia Tech, had previously been diagnosed with a severe anxiety disorder. During much of his middle school and high school years, he received therapy and special education support. After graduating from high school, Cho enrolled at Virginia Tech. Because of federal privacy laws, Virginia Tech was unaware of Cho's previous diagnosis or the accommodations he had been granted at school. In 2005, Cho was accused of stalking two female students. After an investigation, a Virginia special justice declared Cho mentally ill and ordered him to attend treatment. Lucinda Roy, a professor and former chairwoman of the English department, had asked Cho to seek counseling. Cho's mother turned to her church for help.
The attacks sparked intense debate about gun violence, gun laws, gaps in the U.S. system for treating mental health issues, the perpetrator's state of mind, the responsibility of college administrations, privacy laws, journalism ethics, and other issues. It also led to passage of the first major federal gun control measure in more than 13 years. The law strengthening the NICS was signed by President George W. Bush on January 5, 2008.

Cho was seen near the entrance to West Ambler Johnston Hall, a co-ed residence hall that houses 894 students, at about 6:45 am. The hall was normally only accessible to its residents via magnetic key card before 10 am. Cho's student mailbox was in the lobby of the building, so he had a pass card access after 7:30 am, but it is unclear how he gained earlier entrance to the building.
Cho shot his first victims around 7:15 am in West Ambler Johnston Hall. Cho then left the scene and returned to his dorm room. While police and emergency medical services units were responding to the shootings in the dorm next door, Cho changed out of his bloodstained clothes, logged on to his computer to delete his e-mail, and then removed the hard drive. About an hour after the attack, Cho is believed to have been seen near the campus duck pond. Although authorities suspected Cho had thrown his hard drive and mobile phone into the water, a search was unsuccessful.
Almost two hours after the first killings, Cho appeared at a nearby post office and mailed a package of writings and video recordings to NBC News; the package was postmarked 9:01 am. He then walked to Norris Hall. In a backpack, he carried several chains, locks, a hammer, a knife, two handguns with nineteen 10 and 15 round magazines, and nearly 400 rounds of ammunition.
About two hours after the initial shootings, Cho entered Norris Hall, and chained the three main entrance doors shut. He placed a note on at least one of the chained doors, claiming that attempts to open the door would cause a bomb to explode. Shortly before the shooting began, a faculty member found the note and took it to the building's third floor to notify the school's administration. At about the same time, Cho had begun to shoot students and faculty on the second floor; the bomb threat was never called in. Within one or two minutes of the first shots, the first call to 9-1-1 was received.
According to several students, before the shooting began Cho looked into several classrooms. He then entered the classrooms and shot professors and students. Upon hearing gunshots, Cho was prevented from entering several classrooms, due to barricades erected by instructors and students. In one classroom, the professor forcibly prevented Cho from entering the room. The professor was able to hold the door closed until most of his students escaped through the windows, but he died after being shot multiple times through the door. One student in his classroom was killed. Another instructor and an student were killed in a different classroom as they attempted to barricade the door. And in yet another classroom, eleven students died; the six students who survived all suffered gunshot wounds. Cho reloaded and revisited several of the classrooms.
Approximately 10–12 minutes after the second attack began, Cho shot himself in the head. During this second assault, he had fired at least 174 rounds, killing 30 people and wounding 17 more. All of the victims were shot at least three times each; of the 30 killed, 28 were shot in the head. During the investigation, State Police Superintendent William Flaherty told a state panel that police found 203 live rounds in Norris Hall. "He was well prepared to continue...," Flaherty testified.
During the two attacks, Cho killed five faculty members and 27 students before committing suicide. The Virginia Tech Review Panel reported that Cho's gunshots wounded 17 other people; six more were injured when they jumped from second-story windows to escape.


September 11 attacks (September 11, 2001)

The September 11 attacks were a series of four coordinated suicide attacks upon the United States in New York City and the Washington, D.C. areas on September 11, 2001. On that Tuesday morning, 19 terrorists from the Islamist militant group al-Qaeda hijacked four passenger jets. The hijackers intentionally flew two of those planes, American Airlines Flight 11 and United Airlines Flight 175, into the North and South towers of the World Trade Center complex in New York City; both towers collapsed within two hours. Debris from the collapsing towers fell onto or initiated fires in several surrounding buildings leading to the partial or complete collapse of all the other buildings in the complex. Debris also caused major damage to ten other large structures in the immediate area. The hijackers also intentionally crashed American Airlines Flight 77 into the Pentagon in Arlington, Virginia, and intended to pilot the fourth hijacked jet, United Airlines Flight 93, into the United States Capitol Building in Washington, D.C.; however, the plane crashed into a field near Shanksville, Pennsylvania, after its passengers attempted to take control of the jet from the hijackers. Nearly 3,000 people died in the attacks, including all 227 civilians and 19 hijackers aboard the four planes.

Suspicion quickly fell on al-Qaeda, and in 2004, the group's leader, Osama bin Laden, who had initially denied involvement, claimed responsibility for the attacks. Al-Qaeda and bin Laden cited U.S. support of Israel, the presence of U.S. troops in Saudi Arabia, and sanctions against Iraq as motives for the attacks. The United States responded to the attacks by launching the War on Terror and invading Afghanistan to depose the Taliban, which had harbored al-Qaeda. Many countries strengthened their anti-terrorism legislation and expanded law enforcement powers. In May 2011, after years at large, bin Laden was located and killed.

Monday, December 10, 2012

Broken in

This past Friday started out as usual. We were going to have a playdate at home that morning, actually. But some of the other kids were sick, so we ended up canceling the playdate. Instead we dropped off some goodies at a few friends' house for our Random Act of Kindness of the day. When we were done, it was still early, so I decided to take the kids to COSI, the science center. On my way over, I realized I had left my phone at home. I considered going home to get it since we weren't very far, but then decided against it. Who would call anyway? Probably my mom, and I could call her back later.
We had left the house at about 9:15 AM that morning and came back at 12:45 PM. As soon as I walked in the door, I heard my phone ringing. I picked it up and a woman from our security system said she was calling to check up on us because the alarm had gone off. I was extremely confused because I had disarmed it from the car and I was not hearing it going off at that moment. Then I noticed the light on in the hallway. I was sure I had turned it off. I asked her when the alarm had gone off and she said 9:56 AM. I walked into the living room, where everything looked normal. Then I walked up the stairs and saw every bedroom door, bathroom door, and closet door open. That's when I started panicking... It didn't look like anything was missing, so what were they looking for, and had they found it? Then she told me that since they couldn't get a hold of me, they had sent the police. She wasn't sure if the police had come into the house, but she would get a hold of them and have them talk to me. At that point, I was shaking... When I came back to the main floor, I noticed a note on the island in the kitchen. It said that the police had come into the house, had noticed a forced entry (through the basement window), and had searched the house. Still at that point, I didn't know if the robbers had searched the whole house, or if the police had. A few minutes later, a police officer arrived and went through what he had discovered.
A few minutes before 10 AM, someone kicked the basement window. It didn't break the glass, but it broke the frame and latch. The robber(s) went in, feet first, landed on a box of Christmas decorations, saw nothing worth stealing, went up the stairs, opened the basement door, walked in front of the motion detector that is right next to the basement door, set it off at 9:56 AM, freaked out, ran to the front door, unlocked it, and ran out at 9:56 AM. According to the security lady, there was about 10 seconds between the time the alarm went off the time the front door was opened. So the robber(s) clearly didn't have time to go anywhere else in the house. All the doors were opened by the police, except the front door (well, it wasn't actually open when the police got there, but it was unlocked).
At that point, I felt unsafe, violated, and like I wouldn't be able to trust anyone ever again. How could anyone do this? How desperate could they be? They must have been watching me to know when I left the house. Heck, maybe they had even been watching me for a while, knowing that I always leave the house between 9:00 and 9:30 AM and that I don't come home until 11:00 or 11:30, at the earliest.
Now there are a million questions on my mind. Why did they pick our house? We have 3 young children, so it seems obvious to me that we don't own anything worth stealing (the kids would have broken these things by now). And for those wondering, our Christmas presents were not under the tree (hello, we have children!?!?!). But most importantly, will they come back? They know now that we have an alarm system, and that we use it (but there were signs about us having an alarm system in our yard). Also, they know now where the motion detertor is, so will they try to find a way around it? Do they still wonder what else is in the house, or have they realized that there really is nothing worth stealing?
Two things are certain; One, I am not leaving this house until the window gets fixed. Leaving the house right now would be like an invitation for anyone to help themselves to whatever is in the basement. I don't care about anything that is down there, actually, but I just don't want them in my house. Period. And Two, we are upgrading our security system. That means, a door sensor on the basement door, more motion sensors, and glass blocks instead of cheap windows that can be kicked open. Also, a gun. That one actually makes me a little nervous. If I were to use it, I'd have to be fast. I'd also have to not be nervous and to not second-guess myself. Shoot. Kill. It's the only way to make sure they don't ever come back, to steal or for revenge.
Ahhhh, let me tell you that the night following this, I.did.not.sleep.at.all. Every little sound made me nervous. The neighbors' dogs barking, especially. At this point, I am a wreck. I am scared, paranoid, and probably a little crazy. I'm constantly looking out the window, staring down my neighbors, and turning lights on and off to let people (anyone, really) know that we're home. Not that it would keep certain thiefs from breaking in, but maybe it will discourage them a little. I obvisouly can't stay home forever, but at least until this window thing gets taken care of.
That's another question I had on my mind, actually. Who did this? A neighbor? A worker building one of these houses across the street? The cable guy who installed our box last week? It could be anyone, but most likely not a pro. I mean, we don't live in a super nice neighborhood - pros only steal from the wealthiest. Right?
On a sidenote, when the police officers came, they heard my phone ringing and knew I had left it home, so they called some random people (who didn't pick up), then called my dad. Now I give it up to my dad for staying calm and collected. Because when they called him, from my phone, they first questioned him to make sure he was related to me, then they asked how they could get a hold of me or my husband. There was no way. I didn't have my phone with me, my dad didn't know where I was, and looking for Billy at a hospital like OSU is not an easy thing (unless you know his pager number, which I do, but no one else does). Anyway, there is another thing that makes me uneasy, and it's the fact that the robber(s) broke into the house at 9:56 AM, but the calls weren't made until 10:24. That's nearly 1/2 hour. Now let's say that they searched the house before making the calls, which probably took them less than 10 minutes. There is still a 20 minutes gap there, give-or-take. If the robber(s) are planning on coming back, and if they watched how long it took the police to come, they now know that they have 20 minutes to get stuff from the house to their van or car or whatever they came with.
To be perfectly honest, I'm not so worried about our stuff. That's all it is, really, just stuff. It's replaceable and materialistic. I don't care. I just don't want to live in fear. And I don't want someone to be in my house when I'm not there. Someone with dishonest intentions. But most importantly, I don't want to be home when they break in. I now have something to protect us with, but I really don't want to use it. I don't. I could easily be turned against me and my children. I'm just a skinny 5 ft 5 girl. Who's going to be scared of me, gun or no gun?
It's hard, going back to living the way we used to. I actually don't even know how to do that. It'll take a while before I feel safe again. The alarm system is now on whether we're home or not, and still I don't feel 100% safe. It'll take time to heal, that's all...
I feel like this blog post is a ramble of facts, guesses, thoughts, and feelings, kinda all over the place. Oh, well. It's for history and memories.
The evidence:
The police put the window back in place so they didn't leave it wide open. But that is the window the robber(s) broke in through. These guys couldn't have been very big, in my opinion. On the left, the storage box they landed on. The lid is broken, but nothing inside the box is broken.